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RE: Myspace or Facebook - 10/20/2009 6:05:11 PM
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42servehymn
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My husband and I both have Facebook accounts. I regularly keep up with my Facebook friends. My husband doesn't have the time or the interest in it really. I have a lot of male friends on Facebook that I keep in touch with. My husband and I went to high school together and he knows the nature of these relationships. I just went home for a marching band reunion that was put together using Facebook. My husband couldn't go. He joked about me seeing old boyfriends but I think he really wasn't serious. He can look in on my conversations any time he wants to. I think it could cause issues in a marriage but then so can many other things. We will be seeing an old classmate for lunch this week who is in town on business. My husband will go with me this time and honestly I don't think I would go to a dinner with another man without my husband but that is just where my boundaries are set. I don't think there is a hard fast rule for social networks. For some it works and for some it could be a gateway to sin.
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RE: Myspace or Facebook - 10/21/2009 12:35:56 PM
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GraceyGirl
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Hubby and I are both on FB. I have more friends than he does, but then I'm the social butterfly of our relationship. Our families are on FB, our ministry has a page, our home/small group friends are on our lists, and I have multiple friends (male and female) from HS, college, military installations, and Crosswalk (Hi Harvie! Hi Mrs. Wifey!) there as well.
I think its immature to expect websites to establish boundaries. That's OUR responsibilities. If trust is an issue in your marriage, then stay off. Simple.
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RE: Myspace or Facebook - 10/22/2009 12:16:09 PM
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furrypurrykitty
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From: Home of the Corvette
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I have a Facebook account, but I have it set so only friends can see it, and I accept friend requests only from people I know IRL. My friends are mostly from church. I don't have any work FB friends - I just feel that I want to keep my personal life and work life separate. I just recently found an old friend from high school on FB and sent her a friend request. It's so neat to be able to get back in touch with people I haven't heard from in a long time.
I'm single, but if I were married, I'd want to be open with my spouse about my Facebook and who I have as friends there. And I definitely wouldn't go looking for exes on Facebook or accept friend requests from guys I don't know.
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