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RE: Waiting for the "come get me" signs? - 10/19/2008 3:54:43 AM
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SR20FL
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ORIGINAL: Prairiehiker
Will, women like men who can lead. If you're interested, then express an interest. Women that are interested will respond. The ones that are not, won't.
The End.
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RE: Waiting for the "come get me" signs? - 10/27/2008 2:29:48 AM
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Anamchara
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I am not sure that I have ever given anyone the "come get me signs". Maybe that is why I am single? he he, I guess I just assume that if someone is interested in me they will approach me.
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RE: Waiting for the "come get me" signs? - 11/1/2008 11:53:27 AM
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beachcooky
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I usually (always) only wait until a woman gives the "come get me" signals before I go after her. I will never go after a woman unless I think she has some interest. Now I might go after a "tester" conversation or something like that.
Is this a concern? What about the guys I hear about who are great at "going after a girl"? True, this scenerio usually involves someone like Tom Cruise singing acappella to a woman he just met in an officer's club.
Also, are woman usually patient with us guys actually picking up on these signs. There was a woman I have been interested in for a while but kinda gave up on her showing any sign toward me. Yesterday she seemed to be putting out those signs but I didn't catch it until it might have been to late. I was being cautious not to be overly friendly or anything and didn't catch what she was doing until the very end of our interatcion.
Hey there.
Well, all the guys that have been interested in me, I act uninterested in them even though I myself like them a lot. I do this because I don't want to get hurt. And if I act all interested, they'll know. So I act uninterested because then I won't get hurt and they'll lose interest. Yeah, it sounds crazy. But I've been doing it for years. So I don't offer the sign "come get me" signals. Because I don't want to get hurt.
The guys who have pursued me, they started becoming very obsessed. They kept calling me at least 10 times a day. But there was this one guy who was great at "going after a girl." And I started reallllly liking him. We both had a lot of chemistry with each other. And at times, I really miss him. Because he was the first guy I opened up to. But then, he met a girl at a bar and went home with her. I was crushed. So then I felt guilty for opening up...because I knew I wasn't like that. And I let my guard down and I let my real self show to a guy.
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RE: Waiting for the "come get me" signs? - 11/1/2008 12:49:56 PM
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Tashilein
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Well, I don't know much about signs. I do know a look can mean so many things. Person A can mean this and Person B thinks it means that and... hello confusion.
If you come across someone you're interested in getting to know better... Just take a deep breath, smile and see where "Hi" takes you to. Our eyes always catch the outer beauty first before they see the inner beauty of a person. So maybe she looks good from outside but once you're past "Hi", you might no longer be interested cause of her lack of inner beauty (which all depends on what you are looking for).
Well... Look at this way: You've got a no. It could stay a no or it could turn into a yes. But you'll never know if you don't take the step to find out. And I prefer a guy to take the first step, cause I'm such a chicken and don't want to get hurt.
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