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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 8:46:59 PM   
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The other thing is, Sarah, that my husband has snoring issues. He's worse at the beginning of the night, so it's better for me to sneak into bed when he's in deep sleep and not so prone to snoring.


Manda: You guys may have already tried this, but I wanted to recommend nasal strips for snoring. Shane keeps me in stock and puts one on my nose every night before bed (What Love!). He says it has really help with my snoring.

Ruth: I'll be praying for Greg and you both.

NicoleAUS: I have no advice but wanted to let you know I would be praying for your wisdom.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 8:51:01 PM   
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Oh, I could not live without nasal strips! Seriously, they are so helpful.

There's no news as of yet, but Nathan is asleep, and I'm just sitting here. I suppose I could go fold laundry, eh?

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:01:01 PM   
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Sarah, hubby wants to know what time can you get here tomorrow?

Nicole, how are things with Nicole and her mom?

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:01:02 PM   
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ORIGINAL: peculiar_lady2

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Another question from Nicole. She is wondering if her husband has low self esteem. She is wondering if he pushes away to get attention from her again. Like, if he pushes away in hopes she will chase after him so that he knows she does love her and he then feels better about himself.

??? Any thoughts?

By the way, she is asking me to post things because the computer her mum has isn't the greatest and it is easier for her to tell me things so I can tell you ladies since my computer works well. She would come on herself if her mum's computer worked better/faster.


only he could answer that



That is true of course. She was just hoping that maybe someone went through something similar and found out it was a self esteem thing?

To me it sure sounds like it could be that way depending on if he finally responds to her after a while. And if he finally responds and then acts happy again it could be a reassurance thing. But I said that if he just stays grumpy then it probably has nothing to do with self esteem and that may just be the way he handles things. And she knows I don't know him, but I still give let her know my thoughts.

Just like when I need to vent. People give me ideas and their thoughts. I don't always do what they say they would do, but I sure feel better talking about things and thinking of my options.

No one knows for sure. Just God.


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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:03:35 PM   
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Yolanda, things are fine as far as I know.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:04:42 PM   
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hi everyone i might make a personally for you thread so I dont take over this, I will make it in a sec, using my mums computer quickly.
THANK YOU!!

Nicole YOU ROCK!!!

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:06:34 PM   
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Sarah, hubby wants to know what time can you get here tomorrow?


lol....how's about noon three days from now....it would probably take that long to drive it if I started out tomorrow morning...lol

sorry Nicole...I just don't like talking stuff like that on here (esp right now with being sick....thinking too deep hurts too much).


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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:14:12 PM   
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That's ok sarah I understand
I have made a thread in personally for you so I don't dominate this thread.

Oh and Jeanie!! I l ove you, I got your message, I can read pm's on my mobile but not the forum, i will try answer you now.

Yo- mum is ok at the moment, she is stressing me a bit with things like keeping the house tidy etc but at the moment she is being helpful.
anyway....

Ruth- praying for Greg!! I will be praying for you and Nathan too.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:18:54 PM   
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Nicole made an appt for Nath tomorrow with another doctor. Hopefully this one helps. Her mum and sister also said they will watch her kids so she can go do something with her best friend. So that is cool!

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:20:15 PM   
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LOL and there's Nicole!

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:40:51 PM   
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Another question from Nicole. She is wondering if her husband has low self esteem. She is wondering if he pushes away to get attention from her again. Like, if he pushes away in hopes she will chase after him so that he knows she does love her and he then feels better about himself.


NicoleCA, it really would be better if NicoleAU were to start a thread in marriage or relationships with her questions. This thread is for stay at home support, not one to give such extensive marriage advice.


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That's ok sarah I understand
I have made a thread in personally for you so I don't dominate this thread.


And I see you already have, thank you.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 9:50:48 PM   
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Yeah, she did. She figured that was best. Anyways, the thread she started explained more things if you ladies are interested. From now on I will just update there.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 10:44:55 PM   
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Okay, so, the doctor says that appendicitis is the most likely answer to Greg's pain. He has ordered a cat scan to confirm, which should take a few hours. Since Greg says he's ok, my parents are going to head home. My dad has to fly to Canada tomorrow, as he does every Monday, but my mom can clear her slate and drive over here first thing tomorrow.

Also, BIL is 10 minutes away and also willing to help. It's entirely possible that Greg's surgery will be taking place at 4am or something, but we can only take things one hour at a time. I'm tired, but I don't know if I can sleep.

Greg does not want me hanging around a hospital waiting room for hours on end, even if other people could stay with Nathan, because I'm pregnant, need my rest and don't need to be exposed to a building filled with sick people.

So... we wait, and try to get some sleep. Yeah right.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 10:47:42 PM   
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Praying for ya'll, Ruth!

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 11:15:16 PM   
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Sarah, flea bombs could work. Close up the room as much as possible and remove all bedding and soft toys and stuff like that. Take the hose on a vacuum cleaner and suck all the corners of the floor and ceiling really good, and then suck up bug spray like spider spray. She doesn't want those spiders to come out of her vacuum, so the bug spray being sucked into the vacuum really important. Or, she has the canister kind, she can dump it out OUTSIDE. But, the deader the better. After she has done all that, then do the flea bomb, maybe even two, and put a towel under the door and close the window so that stuff stays nice a trapped in there. If she can get an exterminator in there every month, that really is the best bet. She shouldn't have to pay more than $40 a month with a yearly contract. ONLY the monthly service will keep the spiders away, not quarterly or every other month.

Speaking of scary spider stories...my neighbor got bit by one in his house (this is neighbor we share a wall with) and was in the hospital for a week and half and had to have a chunk of his arm removed. As soon as Robert heard that, he made me and the kids leave and sprayed the heck outta our house. The poor guy doesn't have health insurance, so that is going to be a terrible bill. I brought him some casserole since his arm is all casted up. I feel bad for him.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 11:25:30 PM   
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I feel a little better. Greg's brother is stopping by here in a minute to fetch a bag I packed for Greg, then he's going to stay for a while with Greg at the hospital. Greg will enjoy having his brother there, even at this time of night.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 11:35:30 PM   
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Aw Ruth, I hope you can sleep some tonight and that all goes well with your husband.

We have quarterly pest control service and it does keep our spiders at bay. We pay $54/quarter and it's worth every penny!

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 11:54:06 PM   
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Ruth, hope everything goes well with your hubby's appendix removal.

No kidding, Crystal. Hey would you mind asking your exterminator what they use on your place next time they come. Robert and his boss are always trying to use the best products to use, and if only quarterly service is keeping your spiders away, that's some good stuff.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/8/2008 12:11:59 AM   
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I'll try to remember. It could be that we don't have a ton of spiders to begin with though. I don't know. I do know that when I forget to call and set my apt, I start noticing them.

We've had lots of dead earwigs this month. Fun, right? I keep sweeping them up.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/8/2008 1:53:01 AM   
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Ruth, praying for you and Greg.

NicAus, praying for you sweetie.

And NicCan, how much of a star are you? Bless you for keeping us in the loop on NicAus. So good of you.

Sarah, I hope you are feeling better today hon. It must be so hard to be ill when you've kiddies to attend to - I find it difficult teaching when I'm ill - as much as I love the kiddibuns, when I've got flu or similar I just want to hide in the reading corner.

Another week kicks off here - and I woke up before the alarm! Oh, and thank you to all of you who have agreed to help with my classes post project - can't wait to see their little faces when it starts arriving.

Last but not least....could I make a quick request, please? This time of year is a sad one for me. If you've room for a prayer, could you remember me, please. It's a little tough just now.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/8/2008 6:21:14 AM   
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I'll certainly be praying for you, Claire.

How are you today Sarah and Nicole (AUS)?

Well, despite the doctor's initial hypothesis, the tests could find nothing wrong with Greg. Nada. Greg is resting at home now, he just got home 30 minutes ago. He's pulled a muscle before, and he said this didn't feel anything like that, and he did have nausea, which made everyone worried, too.

But he seemed relieved he got checked out, even if the pain remains. He said with a toddler and a baby on the way, he doesn't want to mess around with his own health, especially when the advise nurse told him to check into the ER.

They would like for him to follow up with a specialist I cannot spell, but he'll call Kaiser later and talk to them about the ER docs recommendation. I am very tired. I only got a few hours sleep. Between 4am phone calls and a fussy Nathan and pregnancy.... well, we're all going to take it easy today.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/8/2008 7:18:21 AM   
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Praying that they find out what it is, Ruth.



And praying for you, Claire.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/8/2008 7:24:35 AM   
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(((Claire)))

(((Nicole-AUS)))

Ruth - I am glad to hear that Greg is home resting and everything checked out ok. I hope you are able to get some rest as well.

Well, there is still no visit from AF so I told hubby that if by dinner she still has not come to visit then we are going tonight to get a pregnancy test. I will probably wait and take it first thing in the morning though. I know you don't have to wait for the morning, but I will. Still trying not to get my hopes up...

I think today we are going to stay home and get some cleaning done. The house is a mess and it is really starting to bug me! I am going to start with laundry and focus on that mainly. I hope Hunter is in a good mood today and cooperative

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/8/2008 7:35:34 AM   
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I hope Hunter is in a good mood today and cooperative

How about giving him water in the kitchen sink to play with? With various plastic cups and containers? My ds always loved that - and it would keep him occupied where I could see him when I was doing chores myself.

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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/8/2008 7:46:02 AM   
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Manda, that is a great idea! I have never thought of that, but he would love it! I am sure I would have a flood of water to clean up afterward as he is a splasher, but it is just water. I will try that with him today and let you know how it goes. Guess I should go do the dishes so he can play later. Thanks again!

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