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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 2:08:59 PM
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Mrs.Wifey
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Praying, NicoleAUS.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 2:12:17 PM
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Flintejae
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Nicole/Canada: I Understand her being scared! However, I think this may be the best thing for HER. She can get her moms help, have some distance between her and her hubby (not divorce, but distance.) She desperately needs support. I think her and her hubby will benefit from some distance. It sounds like he's completely overwhelmed and thus checked out. Sadly, he's not handling his overwhelmed well - he's running from the source of it (nicole and baby) vs. running to it to try and help the situation. I bet hearing a doctor say it's just Nicole made it even worse.
When is Nicole going to get a second opinion?
Please tell Nicole that I am going to pray that this time heals the wounds and that her mom is the support she needs. She needs help. Oh and I'm also going to pray that they find a better doctor!
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Today has been cleaning day! My bathroom, kitchen, bedroom, living room and ALL MY LAUNDRY is just about DONE! All I have to do is vacuum and clean the floors in the kitchen.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 2:30:35 PM
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I hope the break does some good. (((Nicole/Aus)))
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 3:04:48 PM
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(((Nicole-aus)))
Yay! Jae about getting to eat spaghetti again. I was happy when I could eat salads again, that did not agree with Hunter for quite a while when I was nursing.
We had a nice weekend, but I have not been sleeping good at all which is not normal for me. I am not able to get comfy at night and just having a hard time falling asleep. Yesterday we went to Atlanta to purchase a IMac computer from Best Buy since they were offering 18 months no interest. Our computer was getting pretty bad so though it was a want it was a need too. On the way there we stopped at Tanger Outlets and did some shopping, we have to go back when we can spend longer. I did find Hunter 4 graphic tees for next summer from the Children's Place for $2.99 a piece. Well I am going to go clean up the kitchen and rest before evening service tonight.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 4:09:00 PM
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Yolanda, how are you today? Allergic reactions like that are freaky! I am allergic to to many drugs and have even ended up in the ER because of some. So now I don't take anything besides tylenol anymore. 
I'm in a lot of pain today... I couldn't imagine this would hurt so much, it's just an outer ear infection, but I can barely hear out of that ear, and my jaw is so sore, I can barely eat (my *favorite* thing to do  )
Anyway, I went to the same clinic today after church, and it was the same doctor, and he was so so so apologetic, he felt really bad, he couldn't believe he missed that on my chart, he even said "was that [name of drug] there last night?" and I said Yup! Anyway, he apologized about 5 times, and gave me another prescription, so hopefully it works and I don't react to this one. So far no itchy tongue, so I think it might be alright!
Awww, poor Nicole. I will be praying for sure, for sure.
Jae, enjoy your spaghetti!!
Two days late again...tested this morning, but negative... something wacky is going on.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 4:49:32 PM
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Georgia-Peach
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Jason found Linux and we LOVE IT!
We used Linux before we got the IMAC and we loved it too!
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Two days late again...tested this morning, but negative... something wacky is going on.
I should have started yesterday and so far nothing yet. I will not test until tomorrow or Tuesday...trying not to get my hopes up.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 4:59:32 PM
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Nicole's wondering what you ladies would do in a same situation. Or what you have done if you've ever been in a situation like this. Should she leave her husband alone for a while or continue to try to call him or send him messages trying to patch things up.
I think maybe a few days of no messages might be good, but I'm not an expert.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 5:22:18 PM
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Shells54
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Yolanda don't you love when they tell you things like that.
Hope everyone had a great weekend.
Nicole, I was in the exact same situation. I did leave. I took the kids and we left. I did not call him for 3 days and when I did call he was so happy to actually hear from me that we got the most things worked out in that conversation then almost any other one we ever had. Now I can't tell you if that would work for your hubby but I can just say that is what worked for us.
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RE: SAHM/W Support - Part III - 9/7/2008 5:51:03 PM
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I would think it depends on his personality.
We're ONE board away from finishing the office floor. Yay!
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I really do pray that this break helps them both know what they need to do. 
She's taken Nath to the doctor's a few times and already had a second and maybe 3rd opinion so far (?). Every doctor seems to say something different. Sometimes it is reflux, sometimes it is allergies, sometimes it is Nath acting out ( 
), sometimes they tell her she is doing the right things, other times they don't listen to her, sometimes they do tests, other times they seem to just push her out the door without doing a thing or listening. 
