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SovereignIsHe -> RE: If Abortion is Murder (7/17/2008 12:07:46 AM)
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ORIGINAL: wayward1 I'm not denying the parallels you're drawing. I'm imploring you to conduct a thought experiment where you lose a child to both horrible fates. To do this you must imagine yourself a father of a beautiful 4 year old girl. She is the light of your life. Imagine also that your wife is pregnant. Again, I regret to have to draw such ugly images but imagine your child is killed by another person. She is gone. Now here's the tricky part. I need you to also imagine that by some strange turn of events your wife elects to abort her pregnancy without your knowledge. Perhaps it is revealed to her in a dream that a horrible fate will befall the child if it is allowed to be born, whatever it takes, imagine it that way. The example requires that it be your wife, however unlikely she would be to get an abortion, because if you're not willing to condemn your own wife then you shouldn't be willing to condemn anyone. Is your wife as guilty of murder as the man who murdered your 4 year old girl. She had her reasons, and to her they were valid. Do you find yourself to be in a position to judge her absolutely for her decision with no ability to carry a child yourself. I do not. Given the level of betrayal I would hold my wife more accountable and she would be no less guilty... The fact that I can't carry a child has no bearing on what is right and wrong... quote:
On some levels I actually agree. It is worse, but it is not murder in her case, not to the legal system anyway. Perhaps this is one of many reasons the faithful fear the legal system. I'm learning. Thank you. Sorry, I don't base right and wrong on what man says is legal... quote:
She will be guilty of early termination of a "pregnancy". Perhaps review of the definition of "pregnant" is in order. When someone is pregnant a child is forthcoming. It is not here. When someone makes a "pregnant pause" in a speech, their words have not been heard. They are forthcoming. When a woman is pregnant a person is forthcoming. He or she is not here. Just because we know what will come of the pregnancy, that does not give us the right to regard every intermediate stage of the pregnancy as being "worthy of the same rights as a born child". We also know what will come of sex but we don't regard contraception as murder. Until mother and child are two, mother is one, and therefore able to decide for herself. That might fly in secular land... quote:
You can go to your grave hating her for her decision, but you will never have the right to condemn her for it. I don't hate anyone and what comdemns those who murder the unborn is their actions... quote:
This is the beauty of modernity. Our opinions of each other's actions stop being grounds for condemnation of one another. I agree with you on almost every account and I am anti-abortion. It's just that I'm a man, and men should quite frankly step aside on this one and let the ladies sort it out for themselves. How many ladies would it take to sort out 50,000,000 dead unborn child? Btw... Point to ponder... One can't serve two masters... John
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