|
Users viewing this topic:
none
|
|
Login  | |
|
done - 10/1/2008 8:45:55 AM
|
|
|
tkc300
Posts: 28
Joined: 5/28/2006
Status: offline
|
well this might be a long post... I am recentely divorced jst wen through a nasty custody battle in which the judge ruled shared parenting which is split time. He doesnt even live aournd here and is planning on raising them at his parents house during his time. It was proven he leaves them to go to the bars during his time( something the judge said was his own personel behavior and not relivent) and is the farthest thing from a role model that can been shown. It was testifies about him hitting on babysitters sleeping with my employees which were 18 and not taking physical care of the kids. All they could say or point out bad about me was i was too over protective and babied my kds too much ( Geez ouch) he wont take them to their activities and we cannot make decisions together. Everything is a fight. well i have no fmily aorund here my kids were my family. I work three jobs Headstart, Tumbling, and dance factory, just to support my kids ( no child support in three years) well have support now but doubt he will pay. I have been faithful been there in church i live my life through christ. but dont understand where he is in all this what happened i have served and served yet i get a judge who is on the water board with his dad. My lawyer is out for money spent 12,000 in attorney fees and am broker than ever have no family support just friends. WHy is this happening why me i have lived right no drinking smoking i was a devoted wife whos husband cheated and left. can someone explain everything to me
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/1/2008 9:13:28 AM
|
|
|
restinginHim
Posts: 432
Status: offline
|
I'm sorry i can't explain everything to you tkc300. In life there are many things that seem completely unfair. But we can not depend on our own understanding; we must continually have faith and trust in GOD all the while giving praise unto Him. Job too was bewildered by all that happened to him. Our GOD is an awesome and loving God. I pray that you will find comfort and peace in Him and that He will direct your path according to His will. May you be blessed.
_____________________________
"As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love." John 15:9
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/1/2008 9:42:20 AM
|
|
|
sparkleingsnow
Posts: 3777
Joined: 1/9/2007
Status: offline
|
I can't tell you why, but God's work says that the rain falls on the just and the unjust. It also says that all things work to the good for those who love Him and are called according to His purpose. This world isn't fair, but the Lord can make something good come out of any thing. Please don't let satan use this to attack your faith.
Father I lit up this family to You. Lord, we don't always know why something happens, but we know that You love us, and that You will never leave us. Please comfort tkc300 right now. Bring close christian friends to uplift her. To hellpl and encourage her. Help her to keep her eyes on You Lord through all this. Work it all out Father in the ways that You know are best. For Your will, for these children and for tkc, and for the rest of the family. Touch this man's heart also Lord, that he might turn to You. Please help tkc in every way that You know is best. In Jesus name. Amen
_____________________________
Bless the Lord, O my soul: and all that is
within me, bless his holy name.
Psalm 103:1
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/1/2008 11:07:08 AM
|
|
|
OneJohn410
Posts: 1231
Joined: 6/1/2008
Status: offline
|
As you said, that custody ordeal is done. It sounds like you put up a righteous argument to retain full custody, and now have things formally documented. You aren't done caring for your kids. I sense a lot of disappointment more than dispair. You are now ready to move on and continue to do what you know to be good and righteous in God's eyes.
You've got a choice to lock yourself in to the past, or to start writing a new chapter in your life on maxing out the blessings you do have. It sounds to me like God's got that proverbial window wide open for you, and has really secured that door to the past closed where it will just be too much effort to budge.
I am praying with the others for you, that you just keep on keeping on, only to find yourself learning and growing and not stuck in that little mental room you are now in. These words can come quickly and easily, but that doesn't mean they are easy to type, or that I've been there and done that. Take your time with things, don't rush resolving them to yourself, and I'm praying you don't get stuck but keep moving on, keep surviving, trusting in the Lord and praising Him for His lovingkindness.
In Chirst,
OneJohn410
_____________________________
The Lord is my strength and shield. I trust Him with all my heart. He helps me, and my heart is filled with joy. I burst out in songs of thanksgiving. Psalm 28:7
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/1/2008 11:56:00 AM
|
|
|
peaceofGod
Posts: 7749
Joined: 11/30/2005
From: Texas
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: sparkleingsnow
Father I lit up this family to You. Lord, we don't always know why something happens, but we know that You love us, and that You will never leave us. Please comfort tkc300 right now. Bring close christian friends to uplift her. To hellpl and encourage her. Help her to keep her eyes on You Lord through all this. Work it all out Father in the ways that You know are best. For Your will, for these children and for tkc, and for the rest of the family. Touch this man's heart also Lord, that he might turn to You. Please help tkc in every way that You know is best. In Jesus name. Amen
Amen. This is my prayer, too.
_____________________________
Jn 14:27;Php 4:6-8 Peace
Link: Jim's Reflections
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/1/2008 1:53:31 PM
|
|
|
TorchHeart
Posts: 1589
Joined: 6/4/2008
From: One of the coldest places on Earth
Status: offline
|
Lord, please be with your servant, tkc300. Look down upon her and give comfort to her heart. Show her that you truly are with her, and let your presence be felt by her. Grant peace to her in this time of trial, and be the rock that she can cling to when times get rough. Bless her for her efforts and faithfulness to you as you help to heal the wounds left by this divorce and her husbands actions.
Lord, also be with her children. Let them be able to understand what has happened to their family. Prevent the enemy from using this against them, and instead use it as something that will help draw them closer to you, Lord.
And finally, be with her husband. Show him the errors of his ways so that he might repent and turn back to you. If it is your will, please let him seek his wife's forgiveness for what he has done so that he, too, can aid in mending the damage he has done to the hearts of all of his family's members. I ask this in the name of your Holy Son, Our Savior, Jesus Christ.
Amen.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/2/2008 5:39:33 AM
|
|
|
conrack50
Posts: 804
Joined: 4/23/2005
From: 200 N. Bryan Ave. Shawnee, Ok 74801
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: TorchHeart
Lord, please be with your servant, tkc300. Look down upon her and give comfort to her heart. Show her that you truly are with her, and let your presence be felt by her. Grant peace to her in this time of trial, and be the rock that she can cling to when times get rough. Bless her for her efforts and faithfulness to you as you help to heal the wounds left by this divorce and her husbands actions.
Lord, also be with her children. Let them be able to understand what has happened to their family. Prevent the enemy from using this against them, and instead use it as something that will help draw them closer to you, Lord.
And finally, be with her husband. Show him the errors of his ways so that he might repent and turn back to you. If it is your will, please let him seek his wife's forgiveness for what he has done so that he, too, can aid in mending the damage he has done to the hearts of all of his family's members. I ask this in the name of your Holy Son, Our Savior, Jesus Christ.
Amen.
Amen.
Connie Lou
_____________________________
It's ALL about God, without Him I am nothing!
Want to make some extra money?
No quotas. Fire your Boss!
Come take a look
http://www.connieloubarnes.info
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/2/2008 10:26:02 AM
|
|
|
tbrobinson
Posts: 305
Joined: 5/11/2005
From: MIAMI Florida
Status: offline
|
Dear tkc300,
I can't explain the why. No one can, all we can do is know that Gods grace is sufficient for us, even in the most troubling of situations. I can't explain why I lost my job, can't explain my father's illness, can't explain my SIL cancer, why Nan's husband died, I can't explain. All we can do is trust that God will guide and measure our steps and that his grace and love will be sufficient to get us through the dark hours. In the darkest moments, he will be there.
Dearest Father, I praise you for your servant tkc300 who is asking the hard questions. Father let your love rain on her in this troubling time. Walk with her hand in hand, comfort her, guide her, order her steps as your faithful child. We pray for spiritual healing father, help her to move forward, to not look back. We claim the promise that all things work together for the good of those who love you, we know that you love us, and want what is best for us, and we praise you, almighty God for your neverfailing love. In Jesus most precious name we lift this up to you.
Amen
_____________________________
Isaiah 40:31 But those who hope in the Lord will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles, they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not faint
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/20/2008 9:49:30 PM
|
|
|
tkc300
Posts: 28
Joined: 5/28/2006
Status: offline
|
well its been almost a month before i came back here. The next couple of days were very hard. i felt very angry towards God. but then i came to understand that everything that has happened isnt the worst. I heard a sermon the following sunday. Over the movie facing the Giants.. well the preacher was talking about surrendering through the best and the worst. and how sometimes we think we can handle things but yet we cannot. I know this. God actually took me out of a very destructive abusive marriage I should be thankful and even though i am stuck i am going to choose to bloom here. Where i stand and where he has placed me. I found this out the other night when one of my cheerleaders confided in me about needing to escape and was planning on drinking for the first time last week. Shehad just lost her father who was a preacher and wonderful man and also her boyfriend of a yr. To any teen this can be a awful life experience yet she wanted a escape.. well i texed her after listening to her in person and let her know there was a reason she never tried before and even though life stinks at the moment its still gunna be there after the party is over! Just a little worse because then you have another problem to deal with.
Thought i would also share a jounal entry from the next day following
Carry me
I have been in and out of court for 3 yrs now. It is finally somewhat over. Everything didnt exactely turn out the way it should have since the judge was on the waterboard with his dad. Small town politics geezzzzz... I got to thinking where is God in all this? Why would he allow something so crazy to happen to his own. So i went home frustrated. Didnt go to the Headstart i stayed at home this morning but went into the gym.. While i was there i was spotting a little girl who everytime she would do her back handspring would stop after her round off. She was waiting on my hand to touch her for reassurance.So as i was coaching her i stopped and told the girl look hun your parents pay me to make sure your safe. My job is to spot you and make sure you never get hurt. Your job is to trust me and do the skills i need you to do. I explained you have to trust me. I have never let you fall and i wont. You have to believe me and have faith otherwise you cant do the skills. HMMMM... sat back for a bit and realized thats what i have to do even though this SUCKS. sooooooo bad. I have to trust God knows how to spot me and catch me without completely hurting myself. And if i dont i will never have the chance to learn the eliments i need that he is trying to teach me.
thank you for all the prayers and please continue to pray
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/20/2008 10:12:30 PM
|
|
|
love4theLord
Posts: 1722
Status: offline
|
I will be praying for you..I know God has a plan for you and he is beginning his work
on you. I pray that you just have peace and comfort through him and draw from his
strength.....
praying for you!
amen
kc
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/21/2008 10:42:46 AM
|
|
|
marstacy
Posts: 332
Joined: 10/2/2008
Status: offline
|
Father,
Lord, we don't know how to fix any of this, but You can do anything.
Heal all of the hurt and pain tkc300 is going through. Protect the children and love them.
Bring tkc300 into Your Perfect Will and let the outcome be something that will bring You honor.
In Jesus name I pray,
Amen.
_____________________________
Psalm 51:10
Create in me a clean heart, O God,
And renew a steadfast spirit within me.
|
|
|
|
|
RE: done - 10/21/2008 11:22:47 AM
|
|
|
restinginHim
Posts: 432
Status: offline
|
quote:
ORIGINAL: tkc300...
...went into the gym.. While i was there i was spotting a little girl who everytime she would do her back handspring would stop after her round off. She was waiting on my hand to touch her for reassurance.So as i was coaching her i stopped and told the girl look hun your parents pay me to make sure your safe. My job is to spot you and make sure you never get hurt. Your job is to trust me and do the skills i need you to do. I explained you have to trust me. I have never let you fall and i wont. You have to believe me and have faith otherwise you cant do the skills. HMMMM... sat back for a bit and realized thats what i have to do even though this SUCKS. sooooooo bad.
I have to trust God knows how to spot me and catch me without completely hurting myself. And if i dont i will never have the chance to learn the eliments i need that he is trying to teach me.
thank you for all the prayers and please continue to pray
Thank you so much for sharing that story tkc300! I love it when  moments happen. Praise GOD!
In the name of Jesus the Messiah, i am continuing to pray for you. May our LORD's will to be done in your precious life for the glory of GOD. AMEN
_____________________________
"As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love." John 15:9
|
|
|
|
 New Messages |
 No New Messages |
 Hot Topic w/ New Messages |
 Hot Topic w/o New Messages |
 Locked w/ New Messages |
 Locked w/o New Messages |
|
 Post New Thread
Reply to Message
Post New Poll
Submit Vote
Delete My Own Post
Delete My Own Thread
Rate Posts |
|
|
Forum Tools
Printable Version
