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What if? - 11/4/2009 5:49:19 PM
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angergetting2me
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If a Christian Spouse was breaking probation rules, would the other spouse that knows about it but does not approve of it be held responsible also? It was Aggravated Assault and first time offender, 11 years probation and is not supposed to have hand guns or drink alcohol. Has history of anger issues and was suppose to have anger management but was overlooked by the probation person.
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RE: What if? - 11/4/2009 6:11:05 PM
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Anon101
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I don't believe the spouse is responsible for the other spouse breaking probation unless the spouse was directly involved or helped the spouse break probation.
The person on probation should be checking in w/a probation officer. You should or the knowing spouse should turn the spouse in for breaking probation if it is a habitual occurrence.
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RE: What if? - 11/4/2009 6:13:18 PM
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Anon101
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Did this person break probation by assaulting someone or using violence? If so, this person needs to have probation revoked or some lawful consequences.
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RE: What if? - 11/4/2009 6:23:42 PM
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angergetting2me
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Thank you Lorilynn777 - I'm sorry, I don't know how to use this site very well...Yes the agg assault was violence.
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RE: What if? - 11/4/2009 6:28:48 PM
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Anon101
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If is was against you, report your spouse a.s.a.p. and get away. If your spouse was convicted of aggravated assault then things can get really dangerous, really quickly. He (I'm just assuming it is a man, though it could be a woman) already has broke probation, what does he have to lose? He'll do it again knowing the consequences for assault at this point is the same whether he does it once or 10 times. Seek help immediately and report him.
Edited to add that pray and lean on the Lord for help. We have a lot of people on this site that will support you.
God bless.
< Message edited by Lorilynn777 -- 11/4/2009 6:36:22 PM >
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RE: What if? - 11/4/2009 6:44:07 PM
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angergetting2me
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Thank you, the agg assault was against this persons neighbor 2 years ago.
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RE: What if? - 11/4/2009 9:39:55 PM
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Report him to his Probation Officer without any further delay.
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RE: What if? - 11/4/2009 9:45:21 PM
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Report him to his probation officer from a very safe distance, especially if he is in possession of a hand gun.
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RE: What if? - 11/4/2009 9:53:18 PM
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Also if part of his/her sentence was that he/she should have anger management, then make sure he/she gets that now. They need to tell the probation officer that this has been overlooked and that they still havent had it.
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RE: What if? - 11/5/2009 6:40:14 AM
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Thank you all. its very complicated. The spouse will be the one to report the breaking of probation and the other spouse may be arrested and will know who reported him and be in harms way.
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RE: What if? - 11/5/2009 6:46:41 AM
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ORIGINAL: angergetting2me
Thank you all. its very complicated. The spouce will be the one to report the breaking of probation and the other spouce may be arrested and will know who reported him and be in harms way.
Then the spouse needs to make this clear to probation and have some kind of restraining order taken out on him. Has he ever been violent to her before? Are there any children involved?
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RE: What if? - 11/5/2009 6:52:43 AM
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No children involved. Yes there is a history of violence, not all at the spouse but anyone that disagrees. Mostly yelling but there have been 4 physical incidents in the past 10 years which was not directed at the spouse.
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RE: What if? - 11/5/2009 10:59:29 AM
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manda59
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Just curious as to why she is still with him, if he is that aggressive.
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RE: What if? - 11/5/2009 11:41:19 AM
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angergetting2me
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Well they seperated for a year and a half. Unfortunately..reconciled. she is trying to get a car paid off and then will save money to leave and relocate to another state where family members live. The spouse will be very angry when she leaves.
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