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A daughter seeking prayer....... - 7/31/2008 6:15:58 PM   
Chantelle913


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I love my mom But I feel the choices that she is making about her marriage sometimes isn't the right choice. I don't try to judge anyone because I don't like for people to judge me. I ask that you keep me and my family in prayers and if anyone have any advice feel free to tell me what you think I should do..... But my mom and her husband gets into all the time. The problem is her husband have these mood swings out of no where and always flips on my mom. He needs to seek some serious help! When I was younger I use to get into there business but now that I am older (22) and living with her I try my best to stay out. When she is mad she is more open to what he does and accept the fact that he needs help. She will leave our home for a long time and then once he puts her back in her comfort zone she comes back home and before you know it she is leaving again over the same stupid stuff. But when they are on good terms she really doesn't like to talk to me about the situation. She keeps me out and inside her business and one day told me that if one day I hear them fussing, fighting or hear any punching or screaming then I should call 911.

That puts me in a hard place and makes me feel uncomfotable when she is around when we are at home. He use to act like that towards me when I was younger but now I don't play games with him which makes him have more respect for me. I keep things to minimum and speak when I see him and a little conversation and keep it moving. I notice that when I would pay him attention he gets mad and treats me really mean. I seriously think that one day he will hurt my mom. He has put his hands on her before when I was younger and when I called the police she defended him and told the police I was wrong and nothin didn't happen.

I want my mom to be loved but if she is loved, I want it to be the right way. Your husband is suppose to love you like God loves the church and he shouldnt put no fear in your heart. Your husband can't protect you and also be the person that hurts you pyshically. It's scary but she says this time he is searching for help but I think she needs to go with him and make sure its real this time. (I don't believe that he is seeking help by the way). I told her that he use to act like this before they got married. She says that if she needs to leave a thousands time she will. I tell her that its scary to put herself in a situation like this. She told me that when I get inside my car something bad can happen and I tell her thats not the same. A car can't plot on you and decides that when you are around its gonna hurt you. It's the people in the cars that kill you most of the time but regardless she don't understand where I am coming from. I love my mom with all my heart just me writing this here brings me to tears. I only get 1 mom and my heart will ache to loose her over decisions that she find it hard to make. I want her marriage to last but not if one day she will get hurt, I watch tv shows( 1st 48 hours, snapped, forensic files) that deals with spouses gettin killed and its real. Please help and this is why a daughter is seeking prayer.........
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RE: A daughter seeking prayer....... - 8/1/2008 6:39:52 AM   
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Chantelle913,

I am praying for you and your Mom.

Our Heavenly Father,
We ask that you bring comfort and love to this daughter and her Mother.
We ask that you touch them and let them see You are our God and Father.
We ask that you bless them with your mercy, kindness and everlasting love.
We ask Father that you take care of this situation and let it be known that you are in control.
We ask this in Jesus Name, Amen


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RE: A daughter seeking prayer....... - 8/1/2008 8:40:18 AM   
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ORIGINAL: conrack50

Chantelle913,

I am praying for you and your Mom.

Our Heavenly Father,
We ask that you bring comfort and love to this daughter and her Mother.
We ask that you touch them and let them see You are our God and Father.
We ask that you bless them with your mercy, kindness and everlasting love.
We ask Father that you take care of this situation and let it be known that you are in control.
We ask this in Jesus Name, Amen


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praying in agreement
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RE: A daughter seeking prayer....... - 8/1/2008 11:05:03 AM   
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A beautiful prayer. Now, Chantelle913, know that the Lord will take care of this matter and you. Release the problem to God and do your best to get out of His way. May God bless you and yours. I'll be praying for you.

-Dave

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ORIGINAL: conrack50

Chantelle913,

I am praying for you and your Mom.

Our Heavenly Father,
We ask that you bring comfort and love to this daughter and her Mother.
We ask that you touch them and let them see You are our God and Father.
We ask that you bless them with your mercy, kindness and everlasting love.
We ask Father that you take care of this situation and let it be known that you are in control.
We ask this in Jesus Name, Amen


Connie Lou


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The love of God enfolds me,
The power of God protects me,
The presence of God watches over me.
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RE: A daughter seeking prayer....... - 8/1/2008 5:37:57 PM   
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Chantelle,
I certainly am in agreement with the prayers for you and your mother. I also want to say that you are handling this situation well, and God was obviously with you even as you wrote the post. The love and concern you have for your mother is admirable and is the right attitude to have. You can't control this situation by your own power, but God knows the beginning and the end, and He will be with you no matter what happens.
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RE: A daughter seeking prayer....... - 8/1/2008 5:52:52 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: Chantelle913
I notice that when I would pay him attention he gets mad and treats me really mean. I seriously think that one day he will hurt my mom. He has put his hands on her before when I was younger and when I called the police she defended him and told the police I was wrong and nothin didn't happen.


This is a man and a woman in a abusive relationship. This guy is emotionally trying to suck you into the "game" and you're not falling for it. Good. But the off and on relationship of your mom and her husband and the potential for violence is sick. Build up tension, explode, mom leaves, he plays nice, she comes back (refuses to tell police at any point), repeat. Typical behavior for a wife abuser, and he found a woman who will play the part of the abused wife. It's her choice and sick relationship, too. It takes two to tango.


This is so far from what God intended. And your mom is going along with it (a healthier woman would say "I won't put up with this. Change or else")

You are wise to stay out of it. It's not your choice whether they do this dance together or not; they choose to do this. You can stay or leave, but I understand how hard it is for you to watch this sick duet.

Please go talk to your pastor, and you might want to write things on the calendar that happen so if this ever goes to court, you have documentation. If it does turn violent, get out of the house immediately, call the police, and don't be where he can find you until he cools down. And if it gets violent, move out immediately; it could spill over on you.

Lord Jesus, I live this sister up to you and ask that you would give her wisdom, safety, comfort and peace. I pray that her mom and husband would see their sin, confess and repent it and let You heal their lives and make this marriage what You intend marriage to be. I ask it in Your holy name, amen.

God bless you, dear one. You won't be in this situation forever. (((Hugs)))

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RE: A daughter seeking prayer....... - 8/2/2008 8:11:18 PM   
Chantelle913


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Thanks so much for the prayers . It feels good to know that my family and I are being prayed for. Right now there is SO much negitive energy going on and I dont wanna be aprt of it. My mom yelled at me today over the most dumbest thing ever. I know that it can be hard for her right now and I tell her I think she dont like to be lonely. God says: "He wil never leave nor forsake you". I dont want her negative energy speading to me. I have so much going on for me right now ( internship, going back to college, etc ) I just wanna be happy and live a happy life. I know that God wil make it better. Especially with my Christianity.com family . Thanks again so much.....I will definitely keep you all posted.
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RE: A daughter seeking prayer....... - 8/3/2008 2:01:53 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: conrack50

Chantelle913,

I am praying for you and your Mom.

Our Heavenly Father,
We ask that you bring comfort and love to this daughter and her Mother.
We ask that you touch them and let them see You are our God and Father.
We ask that you bless them with your mercy, kindness and everlasting love.
We ask Father that you take care of this situation and let it be known that you are in control.
We ask this in Jesus Name, Amen


Connie Lou


Praying in agreement. Amen.
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